Today, we’re diving deep into a topic that’s close to our hearts (and wallets) – managing finances when you’ve got ADHD. If the sight of a sale sign sends your pulse racing or you’ve ever found yourself with a cart full of “essential” items you never knew you needed, you’re in the right place.
We, Shana and Vanessa, know the struggle all too well. The dopamine rush of impulse buys can be intoxicating, but the aftermath? Not so much. That’s why we’re spilling the tea on ADHD-friendly strategies to keep your budget in check and your spending on track. So, grab a cozy seat, and let’s get into it.
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1. The 24-Hour Rule
Our first golden nugget is simple: wait before you buy. Pop that must-have item in your cart, but give it a full day before you hit ‘purchase.’ More often than not, you’ll find the allure fades overnight. This trick gives your brain the space to differentiate between a ‘want’ and a ‘need.’
2. Delete Credit Card Info
Make impulse buying a hassle by removing your card details from your favorite shopping sites. Adding friction to the process means you’re less likely to go through with a purchase on a whim. It’s a small step that can lead to big savings.

3. Shop with Return Policies in Mind
Stick to retailers that make returns a breeze. This safety net allows you to reconsider your purchases without penalty, providing a backdoor escape from impulse decisions.
4. Embrace the Wishlist
Instead of clicking ‘buy,’ add items to a wishlist or Pinterest board. It satisfies the shopping urge without draining your bank account. Plus, it’s a fantastic way to curate your desires and evaluate them over time.
5. Ditch the Shopping Apps
Yes, even the ones that promise the world in a single tap. Social media platforms can also be culprits in the impulse buying crime. If scrolling leads to spending, it’s time for a digital detox.
6. Set a Monthly Spending Limit
Freedom comes with boundaries. Allocating a specific amount for discretionary spending empowers you to enjoy your purchases guilt-free, knowing you’re within your budget.
By the way, we have a SUPER WEAPON for ADHD. If it’s in your spending budget, we totally recommend you get it. It’s good for you, it’s good for the kids, it’s good for everyone. So many times the problem is just STARTING, right? This timer is everything. Tell yourself, “I only have to do this for 25 minutes…” Then, if you keep going great. If not, you got a solid 25 minutes in. It really is a game changer! Use it to start your budget, use it to get a kid to start on their essay, use it to declutter!
7. Cash is King
Dividing your budget into physical envelopes for different expenses can visually reinforce your spending limits. It’s a tactile way to feel in control of where your money goes.

8. Find Your Squad
Accountability can be a game-changer. Whether it’s a friend, partner, or a coach like us, having someone to discuss potential purchases with can help you make more mindful decisions.
9. Turn Saving into a Game
Celebrate your savings milestones and treat them as victories. Watching your savings grow can be just as thrilling as scoring a deal on an impulse buy.
10. DIY and Freebies
Channel your creative energy into crafting and DIY projects. It’s a fulfilling way to spend your time and often costs little to nothing. Plus, it keeps your hands busy and your mind off shopping.

11. Avoid Emotional Spending
Identify alternative activities that can provide comfort or distraction during emotional highs and lows. This could be anything from a walk, a hot bath, or diving into a good book.
12. Seek Alternative Dopamine Sources
Find joy in activities that don’t involve spending. Whether it’s a hobby, exercise, or quality time with loved ones, diversifying your sources of happiness can reduce the urge to find it in shopping.
Remember, ladies, the goal isn’t to deprive ourselves but to find balance and make financial decisions that align with our true needs and values. Try implementing just one of these strategies this week and observe the difference it makes in your financial wellness journey.
Until next time, keep shining bright and spending smart!
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